Many New York households include wives and mothers who have stayed at home during their childbearing years. Perhaps, you earned a college degree, then sacrificed a career because you wanted to be home full-time with your children. Maybe you chose to forgo...
Dads need child support too, but are they getting it?
Even though society is rapidly changing, a lot of people in New York are still holding on to outdated ideas about family and divorce. It is true that in the past judges mainly awarded primary custody, child support and alimony to mothers. This is much less common than...
Why do bartenders have a high divorce rate?
The way that you make your living does impact your odds of divorce. That's not to say it's the only factor, but it is something that you want to keep in mind. Certain careers tend to put more stress on marriages, and the statistics back it up.For instance, did you...
Tips for dealing with the stress of a divorce
When your spouse asks for a divorce, you instantly feel stressed. This isn't what you planned on for 2019. It's not what you thought you'd have to deal with, and it feels like a lot.First and foremost, you're not alone. Divorce can be stressful. Any life changes can...
Early money arguments could foreshadow divorce
Did you and your spouse have any arguments about money in the first year of your marriage? If you did, you should know that studies have found that these early financial disagreements often point to divorce later.It may not happen right away. You don't get in one...
Budgeting during a divorce
Most of us groan when thinking of setting up a budget, but this task is essential if you are going through a divorce. Most likely, you won’t be at the same income level after you divorce and now is the time to have a plan for when that day comes. Gather...
When it’s time to modify your parenting plan
Life changes fast, and sometimes what worked six months ago is no longer feasible.Because of this, courts are open to changing a parenting plan, provided you have the right reasons for doing so. Here are a few situations in which changing your parenting plan can be a...
Finding out what your kids think about your divorce
When parents get divorced, they spend a lot of time thinking about what is best for the children -- or, at least, what they think is best. While it's good to put the children first, do not forget that they have opinions and desires of their own. It's wise to talk to...
Is there a right time to get divorced?
As you start thinking about divorce, you may find yourself wondering if there is a right time to take this next step. Is there something you should be waiting for? What is the best time to file for divorce or to tell your spouse? What about telling the kids?The thing...
What should you tell your kids about divorce?
There’s no easy way to go through a divorce. The emotional and mental toll can be overwhelming. However, you may be even more concerned about how your children are going to handle the process.You may want to shield your kids from the sometimes messy and...
